Upstaged

It's a common song sung by most people who have been in a relationship or trying to find a relationship - Jealousy.

There are multitudes of stories told about current boyfriends being jealous with the ex of the current partner. Or the jealousy from the ex-partner towards the current item of the former boyfriend. Jealousy, on a minor level, is flattering, it shows how much care you have for your current beau, but on a major level it is certainly off-putting. And the worst part is, that everyone is guilty of that at some point.

Have you ever flirted and danced with someone in the club and left him for a quick phone call or to tinkle your genitalia, only to return finding your current snatch dancing intimately with another man? Classic story, isn't it? I have encountered this numerous times and the worst, once happened between myself , my best friend and his then current potential. It is what we call an 'upstage'.

Gay preferences vary pretty much like straight guys do. There are people who like masochistic macho male, muscle mary's to scrawny Microsoft dorks. It is so diverse and not at all vivid, that it's very hard to read between the lines. There are gays who dance with you only because they can't find their types and you are the only viable victim - lucky you.

A lot of people might disagree with me, but If i am to be upstaged, i prefer to be upstaged by someone who is more physically gorgeous than me. It upsets me equally but at least, you know what you were dated before have a greater standard. At some absurd points, you can vaguely compare where you stand in the phantom chart of beauties. I know beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but sometimes, I cringe and am always baffled to see my former flames dating someone whom in my opinion is less than I am. It gets you thinking and evaluating which part of yourself is lesser than him. It's a very troubling insecure feeling but it always gets me every single time.

Gees, who says life as gays are always frivolous?